How to watch your thoughts:
can you observe the thoughts? So you must be separate from the mind to see what the mind is doing.So the mind generates thoughts, which are mostly just energy forms. These thoughts pass through like clouds. We identify with some of these thoughts and obsess about them. So in truth all thoughts are just neutral energy forms, it’s “your” interest or association with the thoughts that makes them obsessive. If you can understand this truth, you have taken the first step towards getting rid of obsessive thoughts.
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Wednesday, September 26, 2012
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Dreams without actions are fantasies !!
We all know it's the big one! Let us give some time to it again. We all dream. In fact dreams are the music to our lives. As kids we all remain very excited about chasing our dreams, we fatacise the process of meeting our dreams to be as interesting as a treasure hunt. Yet as we grow older and face real challenges of life we find it easier to negotiate with our aspirations, our dreams and settle down with what life throws to us. Most of the times our dreams become unrealistic suppositions for us later in life.
Let's recall a childhood...
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Enemy Number One.... Fear!!!!!
If we need to get into the higher income group, we need to grow bigger. On the way will come situations, people, circumstances which not just scare us rather terrify us. What should we do then? The best thing that can be done is to accept that we are nervous. Let us admit that we are afraid of person or situation. Let us know that and let others know that too.
Fear most of the time is truly dangerous. It prevents us to act for what is important. We need to make us understand that its all mind game. Fear is thought process and when we learn to...
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
Comfort is death!!!!!
Well, as my thought goes....there is no straight way to head in life. Its like either you go up or you go down. Each of our mental activities, actions, habits, characters lead us to uphill or downhill in the journey. Nonetheless most of the times, it does takes efforts to move uphill and its easier, passive and comfortable for the downhill. Also, Out of 100 things that happens in our lives, 90 are due to our own creations, good or bad and its just 10 that are given to us by nature. So, most of the times our levels in life are due to us only.
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Saturday, August 6, 2011
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!!!! Hola Amigos!!!!!
Someone well said.."Friends are siblings God forgot to give us!!!!". The point of success of all stories is always somewhere related to the kind of friends we make or get on the way.
We all know that finally what we are depends on the kind of associations, relationships we keep. Yet I feel its easier said than done........ Sometimes these tired relationship don't release us and sometimes its very difficult to get positive associations too....
Lets work harder to get away from skeptics kind of friends who may eat up our confidence. It would...
Sunday, June 19, 2011
The lesson from my father............. surviving failure
I was a below average student..... used to get very less scores. It was always my dad always with me encouraging to try harder for better. He directed my energy by learning from past mistakes. It managed to increase my grades and also made me great at survivorship.
There is a Nike commercial,starred by Micheal Jordan where he says : "I fail over and over and over again in my life..... that is why I succeed". Have a look...... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45mMioJ5szc
Soichiro...
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Tuning Attitude.............
William James once said: "The greatest discovery of any generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering the attitude."
What basically is attitude? Its simply the way we react to different issues of life. A positive attitude or a right attitude can make a situation more profitable or can lessen the loss as the case may be.
Our attitudes can be result of our past experiences, of people who play big or small roles in our lives or because of our particular personality. But one thing is sure guys, no one was born with an...
